How to Set Your Mind for Outrageous Success

It’s been suggested that 80% of success comes from your mindset. The other 20% is knowing what to do. Success coach Loren Fogelman talked with us on overcoming the four primary fears of success today on our Heart of Success Blogtalk Radio Show. It was a fun and information-packed show.

The four primary fears to success are…

  1. Fear of failure
  2. Fear of making mistakes
  3. Fear of disapproval
  4. Fear of success (the most overlooked one, including negative beliefs about wealth and money)

    Here are some highlights from our discussion with Loren:

    The Magic of “One Step at a Time”

    How do you get out of overwhelm and have a great, productive life? Go one step at a time.

    On our Heart and Soul of Success with EFT Blogtalk Radio show today, we interviewed Nick Ortner.  He is the creator of the powerful EFT DVD The Tapping Solution.

    Here are some highlights from our discussion with Nick on his success tip of  “one step at a time”:

    * Affirm or tap on the phrase “I make a difference” — and really commit to that.

    * Regarding the movie/book The Secret and the Law of Attraction:

    1.  Missing in The Secret is

    Email Overwhelm Begone: How to Be More Organized

    Do you ever feel overwhelmed by all the email you receive? Join the club.

    We just discussed with EFT Expert Rick Wilkes (http://www.energytapping.info/for/Tapping/) on how to be more organized, particularly dealing with email.

    Here were a few takeaways from our discussion:

    • When feeling disorganized, become aware (mindful) about what is occurring within you.
    • Use EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) to clear away negative feelings and choose to be more calm.
    • Be aware of what you’re feeling (e.g., anxious) and where you want to go (e.g., being still and calm).
    • and much more…

    To hear this great discussion on clutter, organization, email overwhelm and more, listen to our “Heart and Soul of Success with EFT”  blogtalk radio show by clicking here.

    What are your thoughts on email overwhelm and being organized?

    The Biggest Myth About Finding Your Life Purpose

    Many people are much closer to finding their life purpose than they think. But watch out. There’s a myth that can blind you and keep you stuck…

    Find Your Life Purpose

    The myth goes something like this: “I just need to know exactly what I’m here to do. Then when it’s clear to me, I can take my life purpose and move on with my life.”

    Here’s the problem. Finding your life purpose isn’t an exact thing to do. It’s more of a journey of self-discovery than defining a narrow, fixed task you are supposed to accomplish.

    Yes, your life purpose is the life you were born to live, the life that makes you feel the most joyful and fulfilled. 

    It’s a paradigm shift. Before we explain what all of this means, let’s explore the myth a bit more so you can free yourself from its spell.

    Six Keys For Finding Your Life Purpose

    Believing you need to find the one right thing to do leads to thinking there are many wrong choices to make. It won’t help you to build confidence and find your purpose.

    KEY #1: The first key is to open your mind and expand your thinking. Focus on enjoying the journey – this is the most important part. You don’t have to be perfect and every step you take along the way will provide feedback. With  an open mind, you can eliminate worry and confusion. If you understand the keys and continue on the path, your success is guaranteed.

    To help you along, we created a Life Purpose Breakthru System you an use now and in the future. It’s really a road map for the journey, for evaluating where you are now and focusing on your next steps.


    Ready for a Breakthrough in Your Life Purpose Now?

    And more importantly, is now the time to make your dream of living a meaningful, prosperous, and joyful life a reality?

    You’re probably here because you sense how important your life purpose is. We did, and we have spent three decades exploring the possibilities, first for ourselves, then for our readers, clients, and students.

    If you are ready for the ultimate solution, you may want to explore “The Life Purpose Breakthru System” now.

    Start Here

    What Exactly is Life Purpose?

    Your Life Purpose is the the secret for creating a more meaningful life, a life that matters. It’s your deepest reason for being alive.

    KEY #2: The second key is to identify the source of your deepest desires, so here it is. The key is to access the truth that emerges when you open your heart.

    Why? Because your heart knows what’s right for you. We all know the saying, “follow your heart,”  but few of us follow its callings. Albert Einstein understood the power of the heart when he said:

    “Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.”

    You can connect with the power of your heart, too. We did and our lives changed in wonderful ways. As holistic life coaches who focus on life purpose and spiritual development, we’ve also discovered some specific questions can clarify your purpose.

    KEY #3: The third key is understanding that your purpose combines your talents and passions with the contribution you want to offer to make the world a better place.

    Life purpose ImageHere’s the paradigm shift. Finding your life purpose connects you with a vision of the world, a vision that only you, with your unique abilities and experience, can help create.

    We call it the Ultimate Paradigm Shift. Your purpose shifts you into a new way of living in the world where you make your unique contribution. As you might imagine, it unfolds over time, like a beautiful blossom.

    The Beauty of Finding Your Life Purpose

    Imagine the whole world in bloom. Imagine it becoming a more loving, peaceful, and prosperous place. Just thinking about the possibilities warms your heart, doesn’t it?

    Our (Phillip and Jane Mountrose) mission stems from our purpose. It’s about helping people – through courses, publications, consulting, and communicating. We envision a world that’s more loving, prosperous and whole, one where everyone’s gifts are honored and nurtured.

    Your purpose is unique to you. What do you envision? What makes your heart sing? As you can see, the possibilities are almost without limit. Realizing your purpose is creative, not something you have to do, like it or not. There are multiple activities and pursuits you can follow that build on your purpose.

    The Paradox of Facing Too Many Choices

    Barry Schwartz, in his book The Paradox of Choice, explained how too much choice can paralyze decision-making. Instead, he suggests to become a “satisficer.” That means to be satisfied with making reasonable choices, without being obsessive about it.

    KEY #4: The fourth key is to relax and go with the flow. It’s a miraculous journey. You don’t need to make the “perfect” choice, and forever seek and second guess yourself. Just make a good choice. And we might add follow your intuition to help decide.

    Final Thoughts About Finding Your Life Purpose

    Focus on finding your life purpose as a puzzle you can solve over time and enjoy for the rest of your life.

    KEY #5: The fifth key is recognizing that your deeper purpose will be revealed over time. You will expand and grow as you explore your gifts, passions and desires to make the world a better place. Over-analyzing or trying to find the one right thing will take you off course from the joy of the journey.

    Your life purpose is more expansive and fulfilling than that. With a light-hearted attitude, it’s easier to find your purpose and enjoy the journey every step of the way.

    There’s so much more. As you progress, you can grow and evolve along with your purpose itself. You and the world will be much better for it. And you get to experience the fulfillment that comes from making a difference. You matter and what you do matters, too.


    What is my life purpose question - handwriting on colorful sticky notes

    Don’t Forget to Explore “The Life Purpose Breakthru System”

    If you really want to realize your life purpose, we created “The Life Purpose Breakthru System” for you.

    Start Here

    *KEY #6: A final key for getting the best in life is understanding that the time for change is always now.

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    Only you can decide if this is your time for change. As motivational leader Jim Rohn notes:

    “Without a sense of urgency, desire loses its value.”

    Coaching and Healing: A Match Made in Heaven

    Why does coaching work so well with holistic healing?

    15 years ago we started our holistic hypnotherapy certification training. Over time we added EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques), Spiritual Kinesiology (a healing from the soul technique we developed) and other powerful modalities.

    These healing approaches worked extraordinarily well and our students and clients had great success.

    But a question kept popping up. What do you do after you’ve resolved the blocks?

    That’s where coaching comes in. Setting goals, strategies and planning with people is essential once they are clear and feeling confident to move forward.

    So we added a systematic coaching component to our Heart and Soul of Success signature system.  You really do need both, coaching and healing, to optimize what you can do with a person (or yourself) — whether it’s helping them with life purpose, manifestation, relationships or health.

    That’s why we created our Holistic Coaching and Healing with EFT Telecourse Certification Program. Find out more about coaching and holistic healing…

    Life Purpose Formula Revealed

    Finding out your life purpose helps answer the ultimate question “Why am I here?”

    This short video helps you start to answer the question.  Discovering what you’re here to do puts the wind behind your sails and makes it much easier to get your message out.

    Also  in this video, we reveal our life purpose formula!

    What are your thoughts on life purpose?

    GOING FURTHER…

    To learn more about life purpose, as well as coaching and energy healing with EFT click here.

    What Exactly is Your Life Purpose?

    Your Life Purpose

    Your Life Purpose is the the key for creating a more meaningful life, a life that matters. It’s your deepest reason for being alive.

    This is important because your purpose lights up everything you do. You will feel fabulous when you are fully “on purpose” and terrible when you are totally “off purpose.”

    We all want to feel fabulous and engaged in the life we are creating, but it’s not generally that simple. Many of us get confused  when we try to find our life purpose.

    The Key to Your life Purpose

    Determining exactly what is your life purpose often feels out of reach, but it’s really much easier than you might imagine if you have the key.

    Your life purpose brings new meaning and it feels good to create a life that matters. Your purpose is like a guiding light that dispels the darkness and brings clarity to everything you do. It’s the direction you deeply desire to take.

    The key is to identify the source of your deepest desires, so here it is. The key is to access the truth that emerges when you open your heart.

    The heart knows and as the saying goes, the key is to follow your heart. As holistic life coaches who focus on life purpose and spiritual development, we’ve also discovered some specific questions can clarify your purpose.

    “Tap into the Heart and Soul of Success with EFT” Telecourse

    Are you ready to break through limits and overcome challenges with your health, wealth and relationships?

    Let Go of Limits and Tap into the Heart and Soul of Success with EFT”, 4-Week Telecourse, starting March 23rd. All calls recorded in case you miss one or want to review.

    **Note: If you aren’t able to attend some or all of the classes, or if you enroll late, that’s fine — all classes are recorded. So you won’t miss anything.

    Learn why combining coaching with EFT is a match made in heaven. Learn more…

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    **Note:  If you aren’t able to attend some or all of the classes, or if you enroll late, that’s fine — all classes are recorded. So you won’t miss anything.