Have you tried the law of attraction and found the results less than you had hoped for? It can turn out that the law of attraction works against you, not for you. To turn things around, consider these 5 common mistakes many people make, often without even knowing it.
1. Too big a goal. If you goals are too big, you probably are setting yourself up for failure. Your goals need to be attainable and believable, even if you don’t know how you can reach them.
Here are examples of common oversized goals. If you want to earn a million dollars, say, and you currently make only a fraction of that. Or you want your “perfect” mate and your past relationship history is poor.
Solution: Start small. Shrink your goal to where it is believable and still inspirational. Aspire to earn 5-10% more a month. Improve your social skills and talk to friendly people regularly.
2. Dwelling on the negative. “Things never go well with my employer.” “My project just doesn’t work.” Focusing on what doesn’t work is a sure-fire way to attract what you don’t want, such as negative employers, failed ideas, etc.
Solution: Focus on what you DO want. Recognize when you are off track and course-correct asap. “I’m finding ways to get along with my employer.” “My project is improving.”
3. Being inconsistent. If your goal is to manifest a successful career, are your thoughts and actions consistently supporting that goal? In other words is your inner and outer world, for the most part, on track with what you want?
Solution: Study success material daily. Read and listen to uplifting material about the law of attraction, success and personal/spiritual development. Then you can start each day with a positive focus. And it’s easier to go throughout the day consistently doing and being what you do want.
Developing good habits creates new pathways in your brain, a positive brain groove that deepens over time. It gives new meaning to “getting in the groove.”
4. No action. A dream without taking action is just wishful thinking. Too many people rely on referrals, a check in the mail or their angels taking care of them. Although these are wonderful possibilities, they don’t substitute for taking action. Relying on things outside of yourself is too passive and can be part of becoming a victim, waiting for things to happen.
Solution: Summon the courage to take action to realize your dreams and goals. Stand up and be counted. You and your dreams are worth it, regardless of what anyone might say. Feel the fear and do it anyway.
5. Lack of knowledge. Sometimes we know just enough to get into trouble. We may know some of the manifestation pieces, but are still missing key components.
Solution: Be an ardent student of manifestation and success material. Find support: mastermind groups, coaches and training. Connect with others successful people to help your dreams come true.
As Thoreau once said, “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
Today’s a new day with wonderful possibilities. Look for new opportunities while avoiding the 5 traps described above.
Once you fall into one (which is common), set about getting on the right track as soon as you can. Forgive yourself and keep striving to live the life you truly want.
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Here are 5 easy ways to get off to a fresh start:
1. Affirm to have a great day.
You can affirm to have a great day… today! You will have a better day, each and every day you affirm it, even if what happens surprises you. Remember that things that happen to us are usually things we believe will happen to us. Claim your right to enjoy today.
Affirm, “Wonderful things are happening today!”
2. Be spontaneous.
Break those old patterns. Try something new. Taste a different food. Travel a scenic route. Read a book you ordinarily wouldn’t.
Give for the sake of giving. Be happy for no particular reason. Beware though: this spontaneous behavior may lead to moments of bliss.
3. Say hello to strangers.
A caveat here: greet those who appear receptive. Smiling at everyone else is usually harmless. Spark a conversation with the cashier who has a smile on her face (or who is willing to smile). Say hello to the person at the coffee shop that appears friendly.
A good question we like to ask is, “What has been the highlight of your day?” If the person draws a blank, then suggest that the highlight is coming soon.
4. Value those you love.
Familiarity might not breed contempt. But it can lead to lifeless patterns for those who are actually dearest to us.
Tell those close to you how much you appreciate and love them regularly. Notice and openly appreciate the little things and they’ll multiply. Remember that time is short and they won’t always be there.
After all, they make your life shine so why not add a sparkle to theirs?
5. Find the good in others.
“Be hearty in approbation and lavish in praise,” Charles Schwab once revealed as a secret to his success.
Look for something to sincerely admire in others. Everyone has gifts and talents. Yet all of us are rarely acknowledged. Become an ardent acknowledger. Good things come to everyone that way.
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Your life suffers wherever you are out of the flow. Is it health, finances, relationships where things aren’t flowing?
In this video, you’ll see how a simple stream can be a powerful metaphor for success — and the three principles it embodies for aligning yourself with the Law of Success.
What gets you “out of the flow”? What puts you “in the flow”?
Phillip Mountrose, the “Holistic Dr. Phil” and the creator with his wife Jane Mountrose of some of the most popular books and media on EFT, shares the beauty of Nojoqui Falls, California with you and how to use it for de-stressing and well-being.
Finding a peaceful place, whether in your mind or in an external image, can make all the difference in the world.
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Here’s our 3rd roadblock in reaching your full potential. (See related posts below for previous roadblocks)
Do you have your goals set for the year, in alignment with your purpose.
Like a country, a person without a vision will perish. Don’t wait for your life to come to you. Develop what you have and go for it.
“If you don’t know where you’re going, you might wind up somewhere else.” — Yogi Berra
Solution: Set monthly and yearly goals. Then plan and strategize on how to move forward.
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Here’s the second reason we fail to reach our full potential.
2. Focusing on what you don’t want.
Yes there is much that needs improvement. The mainstream is excessively materialistic and misses the more subtle awareness of things. Even though the CNN Reality has its limits, we can appreciate the good parts of the mainstream (technology and scientific progress).
The higher goal, to reach your full potential, is to find a balance. We don’t have to go into rejection mode and throw the baby out with the bathwater.
If you say that you don’t care about success, it just pushes good things away from you.
Solution: Focus on the good and clarify your purpose. Use all the resources available (mainstream and unconventional) to succeed and make the world a better place.
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How do you deal with maintaining your focus on what you want?
What exactly is the Law of Attraction? And how you clear resistance to attracting success?
To get clarity on the law of attraction, we interviewed Bob Doyle, one of the featured teachers in The Secret as a guest on a past radio show we did. Here are a few highlights of what we discussed:
* The law of attraction is really about resonance. Your thought resonates with